Safety is the foundation of true transformation and thriving sexuality. For any healing, reclamation, liberation (call it what you will) to take place, you need a resourced nervous system. A system that feels safe. This starts with creating safety within your own body. Without it, you'll be looping in survival, fight or flight mode and that is why you may be doing so much of "the work" but feel like you're not getting anywhere. The safety of your surroundings has a huge influence on your journey too. We are wired to be in community. Our nervous systems co-regulate in safe spaces.
The voices below cover all things from safety with self to the safety of space within Native Nude. 
"My sister, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for holding space for me to ask questions and to be super curious about pleasure. I had two full body mind blowing orgasms with my partner last night, which has never happened with a partner before. I truly believe that using my wand and connecting to my pleasure has been the biggest gift and support in reconnecting pleasure with a partner. So thank you! I am honestly just in awe of these experiences, holy shit!!"
- Nicole, South Africa

"I first brought my amazing rose quartz wand and instantly fell in love with it! My favourite things about it is how gorgeous it looks, I could look at the beautiful crystal sparkles all day; also how it feels internally, able to reach all kinds of g- spots I previously didn’t know existed, but with the guidance of Native Nude and self exploration I’ve reached new heights of pleasure. I’ve squirted for the first time, when I brought the wand I didn’t even know what this was. The wand has helped me feel empowered and supported in exploring and embracing my pleasure and sexuality. When I first brought the wand, I felt so connected to it, I used to sleep with it in my bed and carry it around with me for self-love. That’s the great thing about them, you can use it as you wish. It’s super calming and soft energy was just what I needed to feel comfortable in my journey. So unique also about Native Nude is the community and being able to ask questions that come up about pleasure. Also the teachings on creating your own self-pleasure, for example I now enjoy lighting candles and putting petals on my bed for self-pleasure, I take more time for myself and it has a positive effect on all parts of my life. With understanding how to release shame and stagnant emotions I have also come so far and it has allowed me to open myself up to so much more in my life! It’s helped me gain confidence and a deeper connection to my body. My wand has helped me own my power, my queen energy. I absolutely adore mine!"

- Ellie, England 


"I just thought I'd add too that the reason I chose your product was because of your energy. You make it such a warm, fun and comfortable environment to make such a personal purchase. So thank you and I love it, so beautiful! Seriously has  already shifted my relationship with my sexuality and body for the better!"

- Alice, Australia


"Partner and I had such a real conversation about sex today and the wand is already working its magic without even trying it. I'm so grateful for what you have enabled me to face. I'm so excited for the journey ahead. Talking about the wand and inviting my partner to share I the journey has already made us so much closer. Going with the flow and letting this vibe lead us down a whole new path together. We both have sexual trauma and I felt the healing start today just by talking about our sex life."

- Jen, South Africa


"In short ~ the yoni egg is so beautiful, and on a physical level, after only one use I could already feel my vaginal muscles were so activated and so much stronger. What’s coming up for me is giving myself permission to make time for this practice. Make this slowing down and dropping in a priority. I can be very good at this slowing down, but sometimes my mind starts feeding me stories that I have to do “other things” before I can relax, And recently realized how important sounding is for me, how when I can sound and express vocally, there’s a whole other activation that happens. Can actually viscerally feel the energy moving through my body and field. And it’s like an instant connection with my pleasure. When I was using it I was really working with presence and permission and just syncing into if my body was actually ready for this, which it wasn’t. And just by honouring that was so much freedom, bliss and joy just from honouring myself properly and not pushing myself to do it anyway. That was really powerful."

- Ella, South Africa


"I ordered my wand a few months ago and I have cultivated a wonderful relationship with it. I would characterize myself as someone who is looking for intense energetic experiences. I have worked closely with obsidian and jade, and I thought I would go against my general tendencies and opt for something soft and feminine like Rose Quartz. It was a very intuitive choice which I’m grateful for since it has allowed me to tap into deeper spaces gently and lovingly. I’ve had a lot of fun with my wand and discovered my own desires more deeply. There’s something deeply healing for me about going into the “forbidden” sexual places with the energy of rose quartz, transmuting what is generally loaded with stigma with pure divine love. The physical dimensions of the wand are perfect for playing with sensations all around. I highly recommend this wand for anyone looking to discover their bodies and “forbidden” fantasies with unconditional feminine love." 

Valerie Passano, United States


"I found out about you and your business and started to practice and play with the wonderful "beings“ I ordererd with you and it is magic happening…after quite some years of embodiment and trauma release work the yoni and cervix explorations with the crystal wands lift me and the world around me into a new dimension...soooo precious! Thank you for your wonderfully embodied and spirited "enterprise and business" – i feel very comfortable knowing that my wands come from "your hands“ which i trust and the heart and spirit you embody."

- Salome, Switzerland


"I think the biggest lesson I’ve learnt is that none of this happens over night. I half expected to get my Yoni egg / Wand and then BAM! have explosive orgasms and be able to surrender and feel all the feels. But that was unrealistic of me and I guess just went back to how much we love a good ol’ shortcut. I know and understand that you have to put the work in, you have to listen to your body, really feel it, and move with it. Manifesting your pleasure and putting your intentions out in the universe is simply not enough. You have to work towards those things in the physical too. From my experience, things you want seldom fall into your lap. It’s like hoping for a nice cup of tea but never getting up to make it."

- Kate, South Africa 



"Shani, I have so many thoughts and feelings that I'm processing coming out of this experience but overall I am feeling so much gratitude for you and how you expertly crafted a collective safe space with such care and vulnerability and fearlessness for all of us. Thank you thank you for every ounce of your being that you are giving and have given to help so many womxn on their own journeys. I wrote in my journal that I never expected to feel such a strong sense of safety and community with people who I've mostly never met or even talked to from around the world... and you helped manifest that effortlessly. I am in awe of you and your power and your presence and grace and generosity. I miss you and everyone and this communal ritual so much already."

 - Megan, United States


"Shani, I don't think I could really describe what this week meant to me. This was one of the most powerful experiences of my life and I just have to thank you and celebrate you so so much. Today I found myself meditating almost all day and just becoming really overwhelmed by how this bittersweet ending is. Thank you for describing perfectly how today can be just the beginning - it can start a lifetime of these practices. That is something I really needed to hear and something I will really take with me. I always knew you had an incredibly powerful spirit and this journey that you're on and this journey that you're guiding so many others through just takes that power to a new level. I am celebrating my body and this wild woman you helped to bring out but wholeheartedly I am celebrating YOU and everything you accomplished and how many souls you touched with this experience. I'm just so grateful that you're in my life and that the universe let our souls connect. Forever grateful for you on this planet."

- Laura, Mexico


"I feel so lucky to have experienced something so beautiful as the first ever Native Nude Rewilding Ritual. Shani is so raw, real and relatable. She exudes positivity, passion and knowledge - which made her a great guide through my self-revolution journey. Thank you Shani for creating this space to share your wisdom and welcome unapologetically embracing pleasure and power!"

- Angelique, Vietnam


"Every time I think I've experienced this, Shani fiercely and lovingly guides me even deeper into myself."

- Jade, South Africa 


"Shani is an absolute angel. She has come to this earth to inspire us to heal. Thank you. You have changed my life. Let's keep changing more."

- Reegan, South Africa


"My body was vibrating and feeling sensations in such an intense way. I felt safe and let my body guide me. That's what I love about your rituals. You hold the space but it's really just your own journey. You can experience what you want to experince." 
- Kerryn, Vietnam 

"I have opened myself to myself more than ever before. Shani, everyone - thank you! Thank you for your acceptance, for your vulnerability, for your POWER. I carry you all with me, in power. Thank you, Thank you!"

- Christi, South Africa


"I can honestly say that Shani's Native Nude Rewilding Rituals has opened up something so beyond beautiful inside of me. During the entire week I felt so connected to not just my body but all the other beautiful women who took part in these rituals. My favourite moments in the calls were when I just let go of all judgment towards myself, just listened to how my body wanted to move and just gave way to sensual dance! I really felt so wild and free, and I have Shani to thank for that because she held the space for everyone so well, that I never felt shy and could fully express myself in movement and the different modalities. Shani truly has a gift and a passion that needs to be experienced! She has so much wisdom to part onto us and I feel so blessed to have been able to be a part of the first of her Rewilding Rituals, and hope to be a part of many more."  

- Cayla, South Africa


"Thank you to all the sisters for supporting me on this mind blowing experience. Thank you Shani for your love, support and strength. Your guidance was so perfect, true and real. So excited to continue on this journey and honour myself and my truth. At the start I did not trust myself... by the end I was so ready to completely trust myself, my body, my mind and my voice. Sending so much love, joy and peace as we all continue on this journey together but apart."

- Kerryn, Vietnam


"Shani and I knew each other in school, but never really spent time together. We were from different worlds (or so we thought). All these years later, we have re-connected and the individual life journey's we have both been on share some very close elements. One of which, is the idea of fully embracing, loving and re-discovering our bodies and their connection to our spiritual well-being. The art of loving oneself unconditionally often comes with some really challenging, and potentially uncomfortable growth steps, but it is all SO worth it. One way to cultivate lasting healing on your physical, spiritual, emotional or mental journey is to fully recover the wild womxn within you. To forget how the world tells us to conform and hide our passion and sexuality. To unlearn ways of denying ourselves our truth and identity. But this can be challenging! That's where Shani and Native Nude step in - they create a safe and loving environment for you to explore who you truly are as a woman (or man for that fact), without fear and judgement. I went through the most recent "Rewilding" Journey, and was joined by women all over the world. It was eye opening to say the least. I would highly recommend this ritual to anyone wanting to reawaken their Divine Feminine, to those who struggle with their body or past trauma, or simply to those wanting to deepen their relationship with themselves in a non-conventional and intimate way. Thank you Shani for all that you do for women around the world, and for having the courage to be you, no matter what anyone says! An inspiration to us all!"

- Kirsten, South Africa