Triggers & Trauma
THE BODY-BELIEF METHOD ™
"I found out about you and your business and started to practice …after quite some years of embodiment and trauma release work it lifts me and the world around me into a new dimension...soooo precious! Thank you for your wonderfully embodied and spirited "enterprise and business" – i feel very comfortable knowing this work comes from you, which i trust and the heart and spirit you embody."
- Salome, Switzerland
"Partner and I had such a real conversation about sex today and this work is already working its magic without even trying it. I'm so grateful for what you have enabled me to face. I'm so excited for the journey ahead. Talking about this work and inviting my partner to share I the journey has already made us so much closer. Going with the flow and letting this vibe lead us down a whole new path together. We both have sexual trauma and I felt the healing start today just by talking about our sex life."
- Jen, South Africa
"Things that have recently been reaffirmed for me:
The body is the key to unlocking all of our trauma, but also all of our healing potential. Breath IS our grounding force. Space to integrate and sit with your medicine is as important as the medicine itself. You don’t need others to validate the shifts you are feeling on the inside. Sometimes silence is what you need. The deeper you move into your pain- the greater the opportunity to embody your pleasure. When you feel like there is no more room for your heart to expand…the universe will raise the roof! This last month has been a profound time of healing, shifting, integrating and ascending. I have been brought to my knees in surrender.
The fire of my spirit has been fanned by the dance between processing trauma and opening myself up to my pleasure. It is in this dance of embodiment that we find our most powerful liberation. Liberation from our truest grief and pain. Liberation in the ecstatic joy of our orgasmic nature. Let us create the safety within ourselves to celebrate both the shadow and the light of our human experience. Let us nourish ourselves through our growth with intimacy, tenderness and love. Let us be liberated!"
- Jade, South Africa
"Dear sister Shani, as I lie here basking in the summer glow, I am reflecting on the past year. One thing comes to mind, the serpent energy, and like the serpent, we too have to shed the past like she sheds her skin. The feminine holds so much trauma in her womb, so for me embarking on a sacred journey with my most sacred space, my womb was for me a key to unlocking my highest potential, and how magical to be able to work with such high vibrations tools. All my love and blessings."
- Cézanne, South Africa
"Allowing the pain I feel right now to be infused with pleasure. To me, letting pleasure into the pain I experience allows me to drop fully into it and to stay with it. Without needing to change or fix it. She feels so healing and soothing."
- Rebekah, Portugal
"I am allowed to live in pleasure. In all it's magic, unpredictability, chaos and opportunity, life is naturally pleasurable. I am allowed to want and expect more pleasure than pain. Pleasure is my birthright. This is what I felt so wholeheartedly during the Rewilding Rituals yesterday evening. I've spent years learning that it is morally good to constantly put others before yourself. I've watched people who I love, end almost every day overwhelmed and tired, but never consider changing anything. I've learned to feel guilty for feeling too much pleasure. I've told myself that in order to be loved, I can't make others jealous and therefore, I can't live a full, beautiful life! I've seen a life guided by pleasure as an unattainable, and maybe even an undesirable thing. But now, I'm committed to my unlearning. And today, this is what I'm sharing with myself (and now you). I am allowed to live in pleasure. In all it's magic, unpredictability, chaos and opportunity, life is naturally pleasurable. I am allowed to want and expect more pleasure than pain. Pleasure is my birthright."
- Abigail, South Africa
“Day 1 of the first ever Native Nude Rewilding was also day 1 of a massive loss, change and transformation in my life. Shani was leading her first and only five day Rewilding. I had signed up a week before after a strong pull and curiosity to do it. As we landed in the space, Shanz brought forward 3 key messages, of which I can only remember two:
1. Loss is coming, but it is a blessing in disguise...
2. Tending to your inner child
I clearly remember resisting the first message completely. I said to myself..."nope that's not for me". Tending to my inner child seems more comfortable, so that sounds good. I'll resonate with that one. Little did I know that just by showing up, I opened my heart, mind and soul to my body wisdom and true as bob, that night my ex partner and I ended our 7.5 year relationship...my ultimate loss at the time. I always relate this back to one of Shani's famous lines " you can't fuck this up" because no matter how much I wanted to resonate with message 2, life had other plans and it was up to me to choose differently and see the blessings. While in emotional turmoil of loss I chose to intentionally show up for the remaining 4 days. I have no doubt in my mind that in doing this it helped me to process the heartbreak and fear surrounding such a massive change and choice. I truly believe that the space created in myself, the love I poured into my very real and raw wounds and the deep trust I forged within that week under Shani's and my body's wisdom established a solid foundation. A deep grounding to transmute and embody this loss as the ultimate gift and opportunity that it had the potential to be. Upon reflection, it is clear that over this past year, whatever has been thrown my way, my intuition and deepest desires have led the way, practicing presence and surrendering to it all- the bad, the ugly, the beautiful, the brave, the joy, the peace, the pride, the love, the light. This is a pure testament to the rebirth that happened deep within my core in those 5 special, transformative days and I will be forever grateful for the Rewilding Ritual giving me the tools to hold space for my self which allowed myself to grow and thrive and most importantly love myself and my life again. It hasn't always been easy but it most definitely has been worth it.”
-Kerryn, Vietnam
Disclaimer: There are many things that occur that are deeply traumatic and out of your control - it was never ever your fault. It is important to explore this work at a pace that feels good for your nervous system. Heavy emotional responses may arise if you are new to this work or if you are working through trauma or emotionally intense experiences. Have enough responsibility to know your window of tolerance. If you experience pre-existing mental health concerns or are working through trauma, it is recommended to have professional support for your processing. Not only will this empower your journey but an expert in the field will more than likely streamline your process. Please reach out if you need any support, resources or recommendations.